Because a big part of what makes a fantasy so enjoyable, is the security of it (= it will never happen).

And that fantasies, and reality, are often two different things.įantasy porn, or roleplay, are not a substitut : it's the ideal frame in which fantasies can exprime themselves. And she explained that it was awful, a big trauma, that it had nothing to do with what she felt while fantasying about rape. But also that not so long ago, at a party, she almost got raped (if I remember well : she was sleepy, and a drunk guy was starting to try to have sex with her). She explained that rape turns her on since forever, that it's her master kick.

It was a girl's tumblr, and she had a rape fetish (her porn tumblr was about that). I remember, when I was going from tumblr to tumblr searching for rough sex, a presentation text on one of them.